Hasta La Ideas

{I Dream poster by Anna Emilia}

Lovely
readers… I feel I have not let you in on some, very exciting news I think…it
has been so hectic these last couple of weeks or months actually that I really
only now find the time to tell you more about this… in short – after having
lived in KL for almost six years, we moved to Singapore – we only arrived last
week so I consider myself lucky I have my internet connection sorted (almost…).
Our move to Singapore fills me with both excitement and, I must admit, some
sadness. Exciting because my new home-town is absolutely buzzing with creative
vibes and is home to many of my online friends. It has beautiful architecture,
is clean and provides for a safe environment for my two (three…) Boys. 

I
feel sad to leave behind the many good friends I’ve made in KL over the years –
local, international or some combination of both – KL is a true melting pot of
cultures and people which is what I love so much about that city. In addition
to the amazing food and shop culture. In the past, our moves were always
instigated by my husband finding yet again a job in an ‘exotic’ place, but this
time, truth be told, I was the one that told my husband that we should move.
Why you might think? Well, personally, I have started to feel increasingly
unsafe in KL. And this not a ‘posh high maintenance expat mom’ complaining, but
a genuine concern about safety is widely felt by locals and internationals
alike. This sense of not being safe creeps up on you – first, you are not
really aware of it but then you are suddenly overwhelmed by it when you find
yourself discussing with friends (attempted) child abductions, violent
break-ins, bag snatching and carjacking more or less routinely.

The British
school my boys attended doubled and then seemed to have tripled the number of
guards at the school gates after a Dutch boy who attended an American school
was kidnapped (and later released unharmed). This case made the news, but there
are many cases of child abductions (some that don’t end well) of local kids
that do not make the headlines. Similarly, our gated community started to feel
more like a prison – with my friends joking whether the dozens of guards were
meant to keep the residents in or the bad guys out. Especially females and kids
are vulnerable – all of my female friends have drivers that double – in their
own words – as body guards. KL was not like this when we arrived there almost
six years ago – and my friends who have lived there all their lives or much
longer than we have, assure me that KL, while rough around the edges perhaps,
was a friendly and safe place.

Then,
very unfortunately, the risk of harm to me and my family hit very close to home
– I will spare you the details but suffice to say that I and my boys have been
threatened and stalked. This can happen everywhere of course, but to me that
was it – I knew we had to move.  Constantly
being on guard when walking around on the streets and not even daring going out
by myself at night. Just simple things that I have always taken for granted,
such as going to a shopping mall with my kids and doing some groceries started to
feel uncomfortable and unsafe.  

Of
course, this is my personal experience, and I am sure there will be Malaysians and
expats that disagree wholly or partly with me. The fact is that this is indeed
my experience – a bad one, among the many good experiences that I have had
living in Malaysia. And just like the positive ones I wanted to share this with
you in the most balanced and transparent way possible.

I
always told my husband that I would follow him everywhere around the globe, but
that I would never live in a place where I felt my children would be unsafe. I
don’t want to be naïve as I know there are many places in this world that are
unsafe, especially for kids, and many of the people that are affected by those
circumstances cannot simply pack up and leave – so, yes, I consider myself very
fortunate that we were able to move to Singapore. 

I do
feel sad to have left Malaysia…a beautiful country with a friendly and diverse
people. But I will cherish many fond memories of our time in KL, although I wish I
could have moved for more positive reasons. 

So
Hello Singapore! Excited and thrilled that we can start a new phase in our
life. I will be sharing with you all the great things this city has to
offer…starting this week with insights on local design and interesting places to
visit… 

~irenexoxo

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crazy number right… well that is today and today is my birthday!

Spending time with friends and family today .. will be back tomorrow! 

Happy New Year to ALL of you! 

I see many people writing about NY resolutions … do you make resolutions for yourself?

I never do to be honest… probably because I don't like “rules” too much… neither when they are given to me nor when I impose them on myself… but notwithstanding all of that… every year I commit myself to a slightly loosely worded but in my mind very important “rule of life”… which hopefully will give me guidance when I am not entirely sure where to go or how to get there…

~ Until you spread your wings, you'll have no idea how far you can fly ~

{Image credit: Bloesem}

Dear readers …. I received some very bad news a
few days ago. My dad died in a car accident on his way to his house in Spain. I
am devastated by the news and will leave for the Netherlands with my two boys
and my husband this evening. In my absence a group of truly wonderful blog
friends have volunteered to write guest posts on Bloesem Living and BKids. I am
very touched by their support for me and my blogs. Sufiya, who most of you know
by now, will be responding to emails until my return.  While I am unable to focus on my blogs right
now, my dad would have been proud that I am not completely abandoning my
readers and sponsors. He was my example when it comes to work, my friend and mentor … and very proud of the Bloesem
blogs. So in honor of him, although you won’t be hearing from me in the next
two weeks, Bloesem blogs would like to continue spreading beauty to the world …. I leave you in the very capable hands
of my blog friends and Sufiya who I am sure will treat you to some amazing new
finds! A happy picture of our last family vacation in Spain last July. 

My best, Irene … and PLEASE promise me don't forget to enjoy LIFE!